do i have magical mental powers?

i'm convinced that i have the ability to conjure people or events into my life or something (not really because i don't believe in witchcraft and psychic stuff at all). but still it's so weird how you can dream of someone or think of someone you haven't talked to in a long time, and then run into that person, or they call you out of the blue. similarly, last night i'm reading his blog and fighting frustrated tears at reading how much he's moved on with his life without me, obsessing myself into nausea. i haven't spoken to him in months. and today at work, out of the blue, he IMs me. it's as if he could feel me thinking of him and wanting for him.

what is THAT all about. my life confuses me so much. and i'm so overwhelmed with confusion that i can't even write anymore about this subject.