slight disclaimer

in reference to my previous post, it doesn't mean that i won't be kind to people or that i won't be there for people AT ALL...i have a duty to serve others, to be kind to others, to comfort and listen to others. so that is what i will cheerfully continue to do, for those who appreciate it and give it freely in return. i'm just tired of being depended upon, being the shoulder to cry on, being the ear to listen, in the lives of others who are too busy or too consumed or too selfishly indifferent to care about me and my needs, when i need someone to listen to me, when i need comfort and understanding. i've given all that i have to give. i'm spent.